In the morning, we heard from several fellows and in the afternoon we heard from a surprise speaker! The fellows who spoke were Belise from Rwanda, Hannah from Ghana, Yassin from Gambia, Leboghang from South Africa, Nelly-Shella from Cameroon, Halima from Niger, and Adenze from Nigeria currently living in the U.S., Samar from Egypt, Jokate from Tanzania, and Kula from Liberia. They told their fellow fellows about their work and the life experiences which led them to the MILEAD program. It was a heartfelt discussion about the difficulties that each woman has faced in her personal and professional development.
In the afternoon, Mawuli informed the ladies that they would have an audience with Ms. Nana Konadu Agyemang-Rawlings, former First Lady of Ghana and current Presidential Candidate. The fellows met with her at the center for the 31st December Movement. Gifty, a Ghanaian fellow from last year, introduced the MILEAD program to Ms. Konadu and the high table. Mawuli Dake, board member of the Moremi initiative explained the purpose of the Institute; everyone is thrilled to meet an African woman leader such as Ms. Konadu. After each fellow and member of the high table had introduced themselves, Gifty invited the fellows to ask Ms. Konadu questions.
1. Maureen – What has been your motivation and your drive in all of your work?
2. Serraine – What are some of the challenges you faced in the shadow of your husband, and how have you transitioned to the forefront?
3. Halima – What pieces of advice you would give to us as woman leaders?
4. Kula – Could you tell us how you have managed to juggle your public life and life with your husband and not lose yourself?
5. Escar’s question was directed at the members of the high table – Because women are traditionally seen as weak, etc., what are the skills or attributes that make you want to follow Ms. Konadu?
1. Ms. Konadu said that she has to go back 30 years to explain her drive. At that time, the IMF described Ghana as a collapsed state and leader of the revolution, Honorable Rowlings said that everyone should be a part of the solution, or they would be part of the problem. Participatory democracy starts at the grassroots level and everybody wanted to be part of the change, but women were always relegated to the background. Women formed the 31st December Movement in order to be involved in change in the country. Motivation for the movement focused on three challenges during and after the revolution: the economy, youth, and women. Improving the quality of life for women helps the country to grow faster. The movement’s work made women part of the decision-making process; Ms. Konadu decided to do something rather than nothing.
2. To avoid living in her husband’s shadow, Ms. Konadu had to build on her own strength. After she started the movement, she had to encourage other first ladies to do the same—to try to aid handicapped children, to advocate for environmental causes, and to be involved with many other issues. If you don’t do anything yourself, living in someone else’s shadow may become the reality.
3. Ms. Konadu had several pieces of advice for the young women. 1) When you set a goal, please achieve it. Give great thought to that goal, and follow it as long as you know you are going to help the lives of other people. 2) Don’t be perturbed by what others do or say to you. Some have said that Ms. Konadu is too ambitious, but she says that ambition is good. If not for ambition, the world would be a very different place. 3) Keep your confidence, though people will try to break you. Only take a step back when you think you have made a mistake, then move on.
4. As a woman, she had to multitask and plan very well. When a child is growing up, release them a bit at a time and teach them to be responsible adults. It was not easy, she said, but she managed to juggle the Movement, bring up children, and support her husband. Ms. Konadu urged the fellows not to sacrifice their child’s education for anybody. Whatever she was able to do for her children, she tried to do for the communities which the Movement was working with, including giving them great education. Ms. Konadu said “I am living my dream and I will continue living it.”
5. Four people spoke to Ms. Konadu’s accomplishments, values, and attributes which urge them to follow her. The first speaker said that Ms. Konadu has always stood for truth. The second speaker described how her integrity has been tried and tested as she was taken to court by the opposition government, but stood the test of time. She said that Ms. Konadu is open to listening to everything that is brought to her. Another member of the high table said that Ms. Konadu has a lot of drive and is very qualified as a former First Lady. A former MP said that he had worked with her for thirty years, and during that time she showed her commitment through her sacrifice, honesty, determination, and devotion she has towards uplifting women. Though men were afraid to support her because of cultural practices, it is only wise for men to support her.
Former President Rawlings arrived from his travels in Somalia while Ms. Konadu was speaking with the fellows. He took the time to say a few words, and invited the fellows to meet with him the next day. He said that he did not think anyone had done justice to her work. As a person in power, there is a tendency to disempower people. A smart leader can use women to provide a wake-up call to society. When former President Nkrumah wanted to establish an air force, men said that only white men could do it, so he trained two women first. As the head of state, Honourable Rawlings tried to give voice to the people. When a revolt happens, people seize power but that power was mainly exercised by men. Ms. Konadu’s presence on the ground served as a catalyst for women’s ability to exercise their power. Hon. Rawlings said that he had once visited a village and asked the Chief if there was anything that the community needed. The Chief did not have ideas, but one woman spoke up and said that there was a problem with the water supply; she knew this because women have to get up and go to fetch water while the men are asleep. Power and politics is a difficult issue, and African states tend to drag each-other down. The author of The Beautiful Ones Are Not Yet Born was wrong, he added; the beautiful ones are born, but have not given room to emerge, just like women have not been given room to emerge. If you give women room to bloom, you can gain from it, and we all gain from it.